Trust, Faith


A Sufi was once engaged in prayer, when his cell caught fire. He did not stop praying for one moment. Afterwards, people asked him about this. He replied: The divine fire held my attention, so I could not attend to the fire in my cell.

- Qushayri, "Risalah

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The happiest men in the world

Link to the book is here....

However, others say this book is far better....

Maybe this one is the best - the monk is featured in the article linked to below...


An interesting article here...

Extract:

"Whereas Layard believes that there are seven areas of life — family, work, health, mental attitude and so on — that influence fulfilment and happiness, Ricard believes that the mind trumps all. “If you have inner peace,” he says, “then whatever happens, you are going to be fine....Brain scans found that Ricard’s grey matter produces a level of gamma waves — those linked to consciousness, attention, learning and memory — never “reported before in the neuroscience literature”, according to Dr Richard Davidson, a neuroscientist at the University of Wisconsin.

In addition, his brain is dramatically asymmetrical. The left prefrontal cortex is swollen, while its counterpart on the right is shrivelled and prune-like. No prizes for guessing what each cranial bedfellow is responsible for; Ricard has an abnormally large propensity for happiness, and his capacity for negativity has all but withered away."

The Venerable Matthieu Ricard’s philosophy of happiness

  • Learn to meditate.
  • Cultivate altruism.
  • Practise mindfulness.
  • Make space in your life for spirituality.
  • Find a genuine spiritual teacher.

Lord Layard’s philosophy of happiness

  • Be socially connected.
  • Be physically active.
  • Take notice of your surroundings and savour them.
  • Keep learning.
  • Give regularly.

Book Plug: Learned Optimism


Buy it from Amazon....

Review:

Unlike most self help books Seligman's work is based on actual research. I would really recommend this book for people who are sick of the positive thinking movement but would still like some of the benefits. From the reviews here you might think this is just another Polyanna book. Seligman does not say that optimistic people are superior to others. In fact, he says that pessimists are more realistic. Optimists make good sales people, but you wouldn't want them to be elevator inspectors.

Seligman advocates mature optimism. Basically the higher the cost of being wrong, the more it pays to be a pessimist. With that said there are a host of benefits to be had from optimism.

Benefits:

lower stress levels and the tons of health benefits associated with it, more enjoyable life, longer life, better performance....the list goes on and on

http://www.ppc.sas.upenn.edu/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Positive_psychology

Another book plug


The Happiness Hypothesis may be bought here....

Review:

"This was my best non-fiction book of 2006. Haidt is an academic of genuine flair. In the Happiness Hypothesis he has produced for the general reader a synthesis of robust thinking and research around happiness. It is expressed in an accessible style, using some very simple metaphors to hold the reader's attention on key themes, as the author reviews the best of the philosophy, psychology and neurology of happiness.

To put it another way, this was accessible enough to read in bed, and robust enough to fill over 24 pages of references.

My only caveat, I thought the subtitle - 'Putting ancient wisdom and philosophy to the test of modern science' - did not get to the heart of the book. This makes it sound like a series of tests of famous aphorisms. In face, Haidt is primarily interested in evidence, but uses literary and philosophical sources to illustrate and enliven his science; to ask questions of it, and to keep an open mind. But then I think that's just good science."

Book Plug

Amazon review:

Singer Bobby McFerrin had a monster hit in 1988 entitled Don't Worry, Be Happy. The hypnotically perky, happy song hopped its way across the globe, magically lifting the spirits of listeners everywhere. The lyrics say: "In your life expect some trouble / When you worry you make it double / Don't worry, be happy / Be happy now." If only happiness were that easy to achieve. Indeed, happiness requires considerable focus and effort, but psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky promises that it is eminently achievable, even for the galactically unhappy. She outlines some proven psychological stratagems and explains why they work, if you put in the effort. Just be aware of and implement specific mood-lifting techniques to improve the level of happiness in your life. Whether or not you cheer up when you hear McFerrin's catchy tune, I suggest giving Lyubomirsky's scientific happiness-inducing techniques a shot. Don't worry, be happy: They just might work.

From the book....

12 Happiness Activities

There are twelve happiness activities:

• Avoiding over thinking (rumination)
• Social comparison
• Practicing acts of kindness
• Nurturing social relationships
• Developing strategies for coping
• Learning to forgive
• Increasing flow experiences
• Savouring life’s joys
• Committing to your goals
• Practicing religion and spirituality
• Taking care of your body through physical exercise and meditation
• Acting like your happy

The author discusses the book: